Finding the right person to marry you is an important
decision – after all, they will have a huge influence on
the tone of the ceremony. You'll want to make sure
that you find someone who is willing to perform the
kind of ceremony you are envisioning, or who has a
style and belief system similar to your own.
And of course, if you want to make it legal,
you'll need to make sure that they are legally
able to marry you in your state.